Six Tea Party Games for Adults

Tea and cookies are more than reason enough to gather friends together for an afternoon. But why not add the element of good old-fashioned fun to your event with these six tea party games for adults?

Whether you’re sipping on floral blends or indulging in relaxing teas like chamomile or lavender, a few lighthearted games can turn a quiet gathering into a memorable experience. Let’s dive into some fun!

6 Games to Play at a Tea Party

Hosting a tea party isn’t just about sipping Earl Grey tea and nibbling scones—it’s also the perfect excuse to add a bit of playful charm to your gathering. Whether you're planning a laid-back afternoon or something a little more lively, these tea party games will keep your guests laughing, chatting, and fully entertained.

1. Door Prize

Having a door prize is a super simple way to get your guests involved, even those who may feel awkward about party games. Use a pretty jar that you can give away, filled with candy, sugar cubes, tea bags, or the like. Be sure to count how many items you put in! Place pens and paper next to the jar for your guests to write down their guesses. Halfway through the party, tally all the answers. Whoever chose the number closest to the correct one will take home the jar of goodies for their prize.

2. Take a Yarn, Tell a Yarn

This is a fun icebreaker game that gets your guests talking about themselves (without them knowing it’s going to happen). When your guests arrive, have them take a length of yarn -- any length they like, short or long -- but don’t tell them what it’s for. Later in your party, each guest will be asked to “yarn” about themselves for as long as it takes to slowly wrap their piece of string around a finger. (Tip: Don’t let them cheat by wrapping it too quickly!)

3. Tea Tray Memory

Before your party begins, set up a tray or platter with a number of different items, small or large, tea-related or random. Make one of the items on the tray the prize for this game. Bring out the tray of items and let your guests look it over for about a minute. Then take the tray away and ask everyone to write down all of the items they remember. The person who has the most correct answers wins the prize!

Tip: Along with the tea-themed games, you might want to do a little party math to figure out how much beverage to serve at your event too.

4. Tea Party Boggle

An old-school game you may be familiar with is a word-find game called Boggle; this is a play on that idea. Ask your guests to create as many words as they can from the words “Tea Party.” Or make it a phrase to allow for more words to be created, for example, “Mary’s Summertime Tea Party.” You can even challenge players to find or invent fun tea sayings within the mix. Set the timer for one minute and let the boggling begin.

5. Tea Bag Toss

For this next tea party game for adults, you’ll want to acquire some inexpensive tea bags that you don’t mind tossing around. Set up some containers in a grouping on a table and assign a different number to each one. Set this up in such a way that your guests have room to stand back a few feet to toss the tea bags. Choose one of the containers as the prize for this game (maybe a special tea cup or mug). The player who scores the most points wins.

6. Play-Doh Play

In this game, each player is given a few chunks of different colored Play-Doh, and when the host says “GO,” each person will mold the dough into a small cup and saucer, as creatively as possible, in one minute. When the timer goes off, the sculptors will show off their mini dough cups and the group will vote on whose is best.

Home Made Play Dough Recipe

Ingredients:

• 1 cup of flour

• 1/4 cup of salt

• 1/2 cup of water

• 3 to 5 drops of food coloring

Directions:

Mix together the flour and the salt.

Mix together 1/2 cup of warm water with a few drops of food coloring. If you want different colors of dough, mix separate batches.

Slowly pour the water into the flour mixture, stirring as you pour. Stir until combined, then knead with your hands until the flour is completely absorbed. The dough will likely be too sticky, so just keep adding more flour until it doesn’t stick at all. (Tip: Still sticky when you squish it through your fingers? Keep adding flour! You’ll get there.)

Store in an airtight container, or discard after use.

Games provide a great outlet for laughter and cheer, and can easily be incorporated into your next tea party. Check out this article for ideas on hosting a Board Game Night. Have some added fun at your next gathering with games!

The Best Teas to Serve at a Tea Party for Adults

Games bring the energy, but a tea party still revolves around the tea. Especially when you're hosting adults. To match the elegance and lightheartedness of your gathering, opt for a variety of blends that offer both flavor and relaxation. Don’t forget to include some of the best teas with milk for guests who prefer a smooth and creamy cup.

Here are a few crowd-pleasing options:

• Relaxing teas like chamomile tea, lavender, or rooibos to help guests unwind between games

• Classic black teas such as Earl Grey or Darjeeling for those who enjoy traditional flavor

• Floral blends like hibiscus or rose flavored teas for a refreshing and fragrant experience

• Fruit-infused teas like peach or berry to add a fun twist and sweet finish

• Herbal tea blends for a smooth, antioxidant-rich option that’s easy to sip throughout the day

• Exotic flavors like Ceylon tea or chai tea from India to add that extra spice and flavor

Frequently Asked Questions 

What games are good for an adult tea party?

Classic memory games, lighthearted competitions like Tea Bag Toss, and creative challenges such as Play-Doh sculpting work well for adult tea parties.

How do you make a tea party more fun for adults?

You can make a tea party more fun by adding interactive games, themed challenges, and unique tea blends to keep guests engaged.

Can you play games at a formal tea party?

Yes, you can play games at a formal tea party as long as they match the tone of the event and don’t interrupt the flow of conversation.

What is a good icebreaker for a tea party?

“Take a Yarn, Tell a Yarn” works as a great icebreaker because it gets guests talking naturally without added pressure.

Do I need prizes for tea party games?

You don’t need prizes, but small rewards like tea bags, mugs, or sweet treats can boost participation and make the games more exciting.